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Governance

How we make decisions, together

First Unitarian Church of Rochester is a congregational church. That means our members share in shaping the direction of this community. We believe in shared leadership, transparency, and making decisions in ways that reflect our values.

Congregational Covenant

What Is a Covenant?

A covenant is the silk that joins Unitarian Universalist congregations, communities, and individuals together in a web of interconnection. As a faith without shared creed, it is the promise to live out our values in community that binds us together. 

A covenant is both a noun and a verb. It includes this written agreement of promises to behave in certain ways, and is also the living out of those promises in relationship with one another.

We are always held by our covenant, even when we fail to live up to its aspirations. Unlike a contract, a covenant is not void when broken. Rather, we return to each other and our commitments, and ask “how can we live more faithfully into our shared values?” As Human Beings, we know we will develop, honor, err, and renew this covenant.

First Unitarian Church of Rochester, New York Covenant:

Our mission as members of First Unitarian Church of Rochester is that through spiritual connection in community, we Listen deeply to others and ourselves, Open to wonder and transformation, and Serve together with love and humility. As we live this mission, we value Openness, Belonging, Engagement, Wonder, Justice, Equity, Transformation, Pluralism, Interdependence, Generosity, and at the center of them all – Love. We live out our mission, in alignment with our values, while maintaining mutual respect and care for one another, we covenant to actively listen, remain open, act in service, grow through learning, and seek repair.

With mutual respect and care, and in alignment with our values to live out our mission, we covenant to…

1) Actively Listen
a) With humility, curiosity, and kindness.
b) To understand, more than to react.
c) For the needs underlying what is said.

2)Remain Open
a) To new people, demonstrating radical hospitality and compassion to all who cross our literal and figurative threshold
b) To diversity, recognizing that
differences help us grow.
c) To new possibilities, humbly acknowledging that we don’t know everything.
d) To care and concern expressed by others, admitting that we need one another to survive.
e) To joy, engaging in play across generations to find balance and nourishment.

3)Act in Service
a) Giving of our time, talents, and treasure with creativity, in the spirit of good will, for each other, our church and our community.
b) Joining forces to accomplish more than each of us can alone.
c) Keeping our larger mission and purpose at the center.
d) Living our faith in our actions.

4)Grow through Learning
a) Expanding our knowledge and understanding of the world in its diversity.
b) As a continuous journey rooted in humility and curiosity.
c) Changing internally as well as in relationship with others. 
d) Creating space for each other for risk, growth, and transformation.

5) Seek Repair 
a) Knowing that conflict is a natural part of community.
b) Addressing breaks in relationship when they occur.
c) Acknowledging harm experienced by others, and ourselves.
d) Developing our own skills in restorative practices